One Year

A lot can happen in one year.
A whole lot.

Our family dynamics are so different, so much better. We now devote our time to each other, to Caleb. One year ago I never would have imagined life to be what it is today. It's been a long road to travel, and the bumps have been unexpected, not the ones I assumed would come along.

But accepted and taken into stride.
One year.
Wow.

Caleb came to nervous, unsure parents. We weren't sure what to expect. We weren't even sure if he would be with us for a full year, we were scared, but we found comfort. Caleb not only opened our hearts and answered our prayers, but he opened us up to new friends, new possibilities, and a whole new world of beautiful people; people willing to pick up our slack when we haven't been able to carry the load ourselves. Family members flying out, listening to hours of my phone conversations of frustrations, pitfalls and triumphs with Caleb. Ward members who bring a treat each week for the older boys, who love on them and care for them during sacrament meetings, and always have a mint or a m&m when most needed, and take Caleb and rock him to sleep during church when I'm ready to pull my hair out. And these are all different people, different families, all offering us their support.

We love this boy. Without him we wouldn't be who we are today. He has taught us a lot this past year. The most important lesson I've learned is acceptance.

Acceptance of trials.

Acceptance of service and love.

Acceptance of people in all walks of life.

I love my Caleb, and I love every little thing about him, even that blasted g-tube!

We look forward to many more birthdays and celebrations each year for him.

His triumphs and victories will be many.

Watch out.